tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-44404261376507167642024-03-13T04:21:06.080+05:30Moon On My WingsThe Nomadhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18148173873299319450noreply@blogger.comBlogger87125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4440426137650716764.post-7508059578954112292014-07-17T18:04:00.002+05:302014-07-17T18:04:58.684+05:30Happy birthday, Mommy! <div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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Facebook, Google, my phone, people everyone has been reminding me it's your birthday. Like I could ever forget! Like any of us could. I have been thinking about your last birthday, your sixtieth, you share your birthday with my aunt, your soulmate and you both celebrated it together. We all did the pre-celebrations at Neemrana Fort, stayed at the beautiful room which used to be the king's courtroom in the 15th century, had time under the stars, walks, dinners, pool and photo-sessions. We came back home to have a house full of people, lunch with family and dinner with your friends. J was here so was your darling Ayaan. All of us were together. You looked so beautiful and the photos tell me how happy we all were. </div>
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You loved your birthday so much and received all the love, adoration, gifts and wishes with such joy that the giver felt like he/she was the fortunate one, being able to be a part of your infectious happiness. You welcomed the party, the plans papa made, the zillion calls to wish you, everything in a way that said - of course! its my birthday, it ought to be special and happy! I look back and realize that while we all want love, you knew how to give it in a happy way and to receive it with joy. Your family, your friends, your people have been calling me all day because they are missing you, because they don't know where to send the love they have for you, because they don't want your children to feel that they are alone. I don't know if I will ever be 'not alone' anymore but I have to say it helps and it moves me in a way I can't explain. </div>
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It's your birthday but don't worry, you will always be young, like you always wanted. You will always be beautiful and laughing, like you wanted to be. And how do I wish you all the love in the world? You already have it, from so many people. Happy birthday, Mommy. I miss you. </div>
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The Nomadhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18148173873299319450noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4440426137650716764.post-22727814907417773052014-07-10T17:49:00.002+05:302014-07-10T17:49:32.555+05:30<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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I lost my mom. </div>
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In the past four months, I have said these words more times that I can count, in my mind, out loud and to people. I have prepared myself every time I know I have to say or write these words and I have said them. </div>
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My mom, I lost her. They have baffled me every time I have had to say them. I lost her. They seem to suggest that I should have kept an eye on her or held her hand, not let her out of my sight, like I do with my three years old. But I did, hold her hand and kept her in my sight even when I had no inkling that I was about to lose her. I am positive, I did. I held her hand and helped her sit in the car, I smiled and waved and I looked at her till she was out of my sight as she left for the hospital with my father. I laughed with her and dressed up to go to a wedding, I wore thick layers of clothes to go to a vacation with her. I packed and unpacked with her as we traveled and returned. I looked on with her as her pride and joy, my son, played. I talked to her deep into the night as we bared our heart and souls and laughed and cried as we always did. I finally even learnt to make her tea, just the way she liked it. I did all this in the last fifteen days of her life. How is it possible that I lost her.</div>
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How is it possible? That she is gone. We did these things like we always did, like we will always have this time. Like we will always make these plans and meet every couple of months, to live our lives together, to share our time with Ayaan. Like we will always have each other, to fight and make up, to laugh hysterically, to share books and family gossip. Like I will always have her help me bring up my little boy.</div>
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I didn't know. We didn't know. Even as I cooked her meal that my dad carried to the hospital so that she could eat something she liked, I didn't know it was her last. I didn't know that it was my last, for my mom. As I waved her bye I had thought I will see her the next day and she would be home the day after. </div>
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How am I supposed to believe that she is lost to me? That she will no longer fill my days with her laughter, with her enthusiasm, with her concern, with her conversations. That she will not be calling me and that I do not have to plan my days around phone calls to her. That every time I travel, see a new place, do a new thing or eat at a new restaurant; I will have to remind myself that she will not be asking me for a review and to give her a verdict whether she should consider doing it too or not. That the one person who was always interested in my life, no matter what, is just not there anymore. </div>
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Its difficult, every time I say it, to believe that I lost her. That she is lost to me. I am not sure how much longer it will take for me to believe that this is true. That she is gone and I am the one who is lost. </div>
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The Nomadhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18148173873299319450noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4440426137650716764.post-7058368949481669952014-07-10T16:53:00.000+05:302014-07-10T16:53:36.658+05:30The light of day <div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
Sometimes when you have been silent for so long that you don't even realize it. It takes someone to call out and say they were listening, that what you said mattered for you to startle and look up. To realize that as you go through the business of life, letting go of this, this place where you talk to yourself and others, is a big loss. I had forgotten how comforting this place was, I could smile, talk and be sentimental at whim. Thanks <a href="http://breezermum.blogspot.in/2014/04/a-few-of-my-favourite-blogs.html" target="_blank">BreezerMum</a> for calling me back. <br />
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So much has happened in the past four months that that's all I can think about, not sure of why I was not writing here for the last two years. There are some very old posts in the drafts which i have been reading, then there are the scribbled notes and emails I have written to myself and my mom in the past months. I think its time they see the light of day. I think its time to lay it bare. </div>
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Some days you miss someone unexpected, unexpectedly. Its someone you weren't really expecting to miss and you wonder what was it that made you think of him or her to begin with. It might have been the sound of the rain and the way the street below looked in the yellow light. It could have been some song stuck in your head which just wouldn't come unglued. It might be a random swirl of wistfulness. It could be that this is how you felt when you came to know that person and feeling this way - lost and lonely for no reason; takes you back to that person. <br />
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exchange would make a small difference to my day. Its a useful memory , it makes me realize that for all the warmth of known relationships and the security of labeled emotions, there's something to be said about the undefined ones. Simple, undefined connections which neither defy nor threaten the usual definitions; they are just happy friendships which somehow managed to remain happy memories.</div>
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It starts a chain of thoughts which makes me miss other people in my life who in their small and big ways made me feel happy, understood and liked. It also makes me realize that I HAVE so many of them in this one life. I'm not sure anymore about why should it be so unexpected, its just the kind of people and kind of thing one should miss. Isn't it?<br />
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The Nomadhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18148173873299319450noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4440426137650716764.post-34283513728071823642012-12-05T12:05:00.001+05:302012-12-05T12:26:43.633+05:30Purani Jeans <div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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A few mornings ago, taking out a bag of old clothes to be sorted and donated turned out to be a different kind of cleaning than I thought it was going to be. When I unzipped that bag I was not looking to take down cobwebs from distant memories and wipe the dust off some windows way back in the past. That's exactly what I ended up doing. As I took out each layer of clothes, each new one revealed more landmark events in my life and in the ones entwined with mine. It was like a time capsule. </div>
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MICA interview, the first job interview, the first salwar suit - a blue one I got stitched for a birthday when I was in college, the t-shirt I was wearing when S and I first made out. A few of my and jijo's favorite ones. I don't remember doing it but clearly as I sorted out the clothes I didn't need (or fit) anymore and packed them away to be sent to <a href="http://goonj.org/" target="_blank">Goonj</a>; I kept keeping these few aside in this separate bag. Looking at them put me in a strange mood, part nostalgia and part melancholy. These scraps of memories made me think that even though I'm making new ones everyday there is a completely different and irreplaceable quality about these old ones. The clothes may be out of fashion now and may not fit anymore, the memories - they are always going to fit. They are from a time when I was really young, free and fearless; they remind me how it felt to be like that. Today the fearlessness and freedom are still very much there but they mean totally different things. Its a strange sense of loss, may be this is how it feels - to finally accept that you are a grown up and knowing that there's no way out of this one :) </div>
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The Nomadhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18148173873299319450noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4440426137650716764.post-30508929684691095032011-12-31T01:30:00.006+05:302011-12-31T02:58:01.668+05:30Fir Wahi Raat Hai<div style="text-align: justify;">Its one of those nights. Nights when even after everyone is asleep and your tired body is demanding sleep it badly needs, your mind refuses to. Or is it your heart that does not want to?<br /></div><br /><div style="text-align: justify;">Nights when you feel that strange delicious melancholy that you do not want to let go of, nostalgia that you want to linger in for just a little bit more.<br /></div><br /><div style="text-align: justify;">Nights when you want to listen to songs that make you feel warm and alive and lonely at the same time.<br /></div><br /><div style="text-align: justify;">Nights that make you yearn for something unknown that you feel you lost. Yet, you know not what.<br /></div><br /><div style="text-align: justify;">Nights when the heart unlocks its forgotten doors and entices you to take a walk down lanes whose memory was starting to grow hazy for you; and once you decide to take that tentative stroll it takes you down paths you once knew and comes up with memories you didn't know you had lost, like shiny-bright pennies on a foggy night.<br /></div><br /><div style="text-align: justify;">One of those quiet nights when I think about and feel nostalgic for many such nights in the distant past, a past which sometimes seems like it was yesterday and like another lifetime - all at the same time. Like the one spent watching the rain-slick, yellow-lit Delhi mall road from my window. Or the summery one spent watching the stars as I lay on grass slick with dew and listened to distant sounds of life and laughter elsewhere. The one spent on an overnight train, sharing a shawl and life stories with someone. Oh, and that one, one of my favorites, on terraces of various houses and hostels - spent chatting with my sister and/or our friends. Listening to music. Always the music in the background.<br /></div><br /><div style="text-align: justify;">A night which makes me think about people in my life, that are. Of those who were. Friends who belonged to me, or the ones I belonged to. People who touched my life and went past ... like the proverbial trains in the night. And the ones who made a place and stayed on. About old, rusted questions that I have answers to now and the ones which remain. Lending a little mystery and romance.<br /></div><br /><div style="text-align: justify;">This night makes me gaze back for no reason and when I do, those distant days seem like small pods where we lived uncaring of the past and oblivious of the future. Even tonight, there is no joy or pain or fear or excitement in looking back; just a calm curiosity. Like wiping a window frosted with time to see what lies behind.<br /></div><br /><div style="text-align: justify;">This night. These nights. They leave me with the dreaminess I need to go on. Go on till I will have another one of these trysts. <span style="font-style: italic;">Raat to roz dhalti hai magar, Kaun jaane fir kab aisi shab mile</span>y. Who knows when that will be.</div>The Nomadhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18148173873299319450noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4440426137650716764.post-78004633019866855872009-07-28T18:42:00.003+05:302009-07-28T18:49:27.495+05:30Know who to ask<div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size:85%;">This is how an <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_0">SMS</span> exchange between <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_1">Praks</span> and me over the weekend goes ...</span><br /><br /><span style="font-size:85%;"><span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_2">Praks</span>: I'm getting a hair cut. This guy is suggesting that I straighten a bit of hair in the front and leave the rest curly as is. What to do?</span><br /><br /><span style="font-size:85%;">Me: Go ahead!It may look good, if not, you could just straighten all after a few days</span><br /><br /><span style="font-size:85%;"><span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_3">Praks</span>: I knew you would say this! What else can I expect from a girl who colored her hair magenta. I shall go for it :) </span><br /><br /><br /><span style="font-size:85%;">Learning- If you want advice you can follow, know who to ask. </span></div>The Nomadhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18148173873299319450noreply@blogger.com7tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4440426137650716764.post-14579883628659788662009-07-16T09:54:00.003+05:302009-07-16T09:57:35.721+05:30That's What<a href="http://strummingmythoughts.blogspot.com/2009/07/two-years-and-writing.html">This</a> is the kind of thing you need to have to feel at all times, that you are loved and can go on. That you can crawl out of your shell or look up from a crazy sprint and know that there's comfort and conversation and laughs and the warm feeling anytime you want them. Ser, I'll say it again. You're my person. This made my day, may be even the week :)The Nomadhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18148173873299319450noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4440426137650716764.post-33682049237826191512009-06-26T14:30:00.010+05:302009-06-26T15:20:56.984+05:30MJ is gone<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://www.michaeljackson.com/"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 223px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_SaTSHwLeXPU/SkSQuT8AuvI/AAAAAAAAGhs/rBc6D39hfQk/s400/mj-splash-bg.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5351561382523353842" border="0" /></a><br /><br /><div style="text-align: justify;">I woke up to the shocking news of Michael Jackson's death and though I do not have tears for him, as I watched the images on the telly I had goosebumps and a deep sense of loss. I don't think there's anyone from my generation who has not been impacted by his music and I am no exception. Saying something about what a phenomenon he was and how great his music was etc. just seems unnecessary - who's there who doesn't <span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_0">know</span> about it? You love him and his music or like it or even, may be, don't <span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_1">like</span> it; one thing you couldn't do was ignore it.<br /><br />For me, his music has been part of my growing up years, songs I listened to from recorded cassettes on our sky blue <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_2">Sanyo</span> two-in-one stereo. Songs that we would play in hostel parties and get-<span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_3">togethers</span> during school years. Songs that would sometimes play on the 1 am wicked hour show on the Delhi FM (the old one, the first, the best one) - as J, me and <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_4">roomies</span> would lie awake in our Hudson Lines student traps near DU. Watching his music videos that my friend <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_5">Nishant</span> would download, late into the night between group work, <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_6">maggi</span> and assignments (this was of course <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_7">pre</span> <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_8">youtube</span> era). No matter which year it was and which track, his music was eternally cool.<br /><br />It has been some time since he gave music that would capture me like it used to, but him being gone is a loss all the same. Anyone who has been a fan and hasn't already been there, always wanted to see him live, hear him sing, do his thing. Attend a concert and be a part of the spell everyone said he could cast. Its all folklore now and with him gone that hope's gone too. Still no matter that the news headlines say 'death of music', music is all that remains.<br /><br />RIP MJ.<br /><br />His Obituary at <a href="http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/entertainment/4612963.stm">BBC</a>.<br /></div>The Nomadhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18148173873299319450noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4440426137650716764.post-3005698364325662122009-06-25T15:20:00.006+05:302009-06-25T16:48:04.903+05:30Back Home<div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size:85%;">This isn't about me coming back home, I reached back about 20 days back but my story is there in the unpublished drafts and will eventually come out. This is about a friend who came back home after 3 years. S and I went to pick him at the airport and as we waited I kept thinking when was it that I became friends with him.<br /><br /><span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_0">Sudip</span> and I go back many years but like with most of my good friends I do not remember how I came to be his friend. I just know that he was my senior at MICA who was always sweet to talk to and had a sense of humor, also he would use my comp sometimes when he needed it. On one such day when he was working on my computer and I was snoozing, he had shaken me awake to tell me that someone had flown an airplane into <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_1">WTC</span>. I thought he was kidding and didn't want to wake up ... we had rushed to the mess (where the only TV except for class rooms and media centre was) only to watch stunned as the second plane went in. The two of us remember this and mention this often, its one of my few memories of time with him at that time. After he graduated I met him once in Bombay where he was working and I was doing my summer training. As I was saying, I am not sure when we became such good friends.<br /><br />After MICA I was working in Delhi for a few months and he was also there, we would sometimes meet up on weekends, I would order the <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_2">Aloo</span> Attack pizza from Pizza Hut, he some carnivore option and we'll </span><span style="font-size:85%;">eat sitting on the terrace of his home and talk</span><span style="font-size:85%;">. I loved that pizza, its no longer on their menu and a big reason why we always obliged Pizza Hut was that it was <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_3">Sudip's</span> client and he could claim all the bills! After three months I moved to Bombay and in some time he moved to Cal, which is where his family is and joined the same firm I was with. My <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_4">Quali</span> (Qualitative research) wanderings took me to Cal often and on the days we weren't eating at one of the wonderful places he chose, his mom would cook the yummiest bong food for me (yes, there ARE vegetarian options). She still cooks for me every chance and even sends food if someone is taking a flight to Bombay. One of the reasons auntie likes me so is because I eat without fuss :)<br /><br />Oh and we met at a few domestic and foreign locales over the years for our office trainings and conferences, where we wouldn't necessary hang out together but would have a shopping stint or a walk or a fun conversation which kept the warmth in the friendship.<br /><br />Another thing I'm not so sure of is when S and <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_5">Sudip</span> became friends, but they did and I'm even a wee bit jealous at times that they are so thick, he's my friend after all! S is someone who gets along with most people but he has few friends which he's close to and <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_6">Sudip</span> is one of them. I have a large number of very close friends and I'm <span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_7">OK</span> if the guy is not <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_8">chuddi</span> buddies with all of them, yet its really nice to have that too. It makes <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_9">Sudip</span>, <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_10">Praks</span>, me and S this really cosy group. (I've mentioned <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_11">Praks</span> before but just to remind you - she's my batch mate from MICA and is one of my closest friends. She is a super-long blog post herself.)<br /><br />Now, <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_12">Sudip</span> has had more than his fair share of problems in life and he's dealt with them with more poise than anyone I know, always joking about a scenario rather than feeling sorry about it. We always talked about everything that's going on in our lives and have always managed to look forward and rib each other about whatever it is. Three years back, to sort out some of his issues he needed more money and took up a job offer at Dubai. We met many times during these years - he's visited us, on both our visits to Dubai we've had a really good time together. He has remained a confidante to <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_13">Praks</span>' mother and teases my mom every time he talked to her. We all took a wonderful trip together to Bhutan with <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_14">Sudip</span>, S, <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_15">Praks</span>, Me and <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_16">Brishti</span> all having a blast of a time. <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_17">Brishti</span> is his adorable 10 year old niece, or now his daughter since the legalities are done. The trip started with one of aunty's famous Bengali feasts which had all of us panting like dogs with overstuffed bellies. So as much as I ponder, I am not able to figure out when was it that we ceased to be just friends and came to be family.<br /><br />In the last few days before coming back he's been saying that he's had a good three years where he made more friends than he knew he would, he did well at work, managed to win some personal battles and lost a few ... like his dad. Now is the time, he's put the foundation and is starting a new chapter in his life. </span><span style="font-size:85%;">Yesterday when he came out of the departure gate, he looked happy and moved at the same time. He saw me and said,"Three years ago when I went you were standing here saying bye to me, now I've come back and you are still here?"<br /><br />For all my endless doubts and questions, this is an awfully easy one. Where else would I be? Welcome back.<br /></span></div>The Nomadhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18148173873299319450noreply@blogger.com7tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4440426137650716764.post-80568102742118662342009-05-04T19:22:00.004+05:302009-05-04T19:33:00.922+05:30Quick Hi<div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size:85%;">Hey All, I'm missing from the page because I'm busy doing the ONLY thing I like more than travel. Plan, research (to death), imagine, research more, prepare for - the travel ITSELF! :)<br /><br />One graduation, 10 places, too many people I like, one mega road trip, some re-visits, some new, fabulous company, a very excited me. Sounds like the journey's already begin. :)<br /></span></div>The Nomadhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18148173873299319450noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4440426137650716764.post-72052957583580549192009-04-20T15:35:00.010+05:302009-04-20T16:48:38.585+05:30For Ser<div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size:85%;"><a href="http://strummingmythoughts.blogspot.com/"><span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_0">Ser</span></a>, my dear girl, it has kind of become the norm for me to be living parts of whatever is going on in your life with you. Its a norm I quite like. So it is no wonder that I have been thinking of all my house-shifting experiences as you go through <span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_1">yours</span>. All 19 of them. 10 with the family (4 of them partial), 4 with the sis and 5 all on my own. Well don't gasp, I did say I was nomadic.<br /><br />Like almost everything else in life since I was around 2 years old, I remember these also in vivid detail - the houses as well as the shifts. The weeks of sifting, discarding, discovering long-forgotten things, packing, labeling and the far too many goodbye lunches and dinners. The way a home suddenly just looked like a house on the mornings the stuff moved - stripped bare of the life and order. The way each of us would walk around the house slowly to see our private places, memorize some hidden stories or make the last dash to say goodbyes to friends (my mom has stories of me hugging a few trees and pillars). Leaving behind mornings, days and nights of your life that you had spent there - loving, laughing, fighting, growing, living.<br /><br />I also remember and in brighter colors, is how different the energy and sound levels would be at the new house. The pace at which the same people, who were dragging their feet some time back, would rush about from room to room already visualizing how each place should look, what should go where, what needs to be done, who needs to be called in etc. As the big pieces would fit in and the kitchen would be set up, there would be a semblance of order again, with the numerous boxes to be unpacked in order of priority over days, at a more leisurely pace. Mostly as the day ended and all of us would sit down on the dinner table, it would be the beginning of a life in a new place and it would be the beginning of a new home. There was a strange <span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_2">enthusiasm</span> and hope in that day.<br /><br />The longest I lived in a house is 9 years and that was 15 years ago, I still dream of that place (a very 'last night I dreamt I went to <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_3">Mandarlay</span> again') and when I wake up in deep sleep my hand looks for the door latch at a level where it used to be in my room in that house. May be its also has to do with the fact that J went to boarding house from there and we've only spent long months of vacations at home over years. STILL, every home after that has its own precious stories and moments. Every home hurt as much to leave. From the teenager chaos of the Jaipur home and the crazy revelry of the <span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_4">Hudson</span> Lines house near DU campus where J and I stayed with friends. Though I have to say that the home my dad built us in Jaipur about 10 years back (which is another post) has been an <span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_5">anchor</span> through all the wandering and now with our home here in Bombay, I've known a kind of stability which is calming and (if you know me) distressing in turns.<br /><br />So what I have to say to you is something I suspect you already know but it helps to hear it being said. The thing about moving is not just the pain of leaving behind a thousand memories, growing-up stories and a part of yourself with them; its also the hope of what is to come and what the new home can be. Its about the memories you are already creating as you buy a switch for this home and laugh at the <span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_6">silliness</span> of expecting the newspaper, milk and cable connection to <span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_7">materialize</span> on their own. Once you've shed your tears for the house you grew up in, it can only get easier. Or so they say.<br /></span></div>The Nomadhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18148173873299319450noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4440426137650716764.post-23081216014641993322009-04-13T15:59:00.005+05:302009-04-13T16:19:22.849+05:30Keeping us safe<div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size:85%;">The <a href="http://jagrutmumbaikar.eurekaforbes.com/"><span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_0">Jagrut</span> <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_1">Mumbaikar</span></a> team conducted an awareness session in my society over the weekend. This included presentations by the cops from the local police station and the firemen. Not only was it a well thought-out and comprehensive talk including various scenarios like fire, floods, small household accidents, terror attacks etc. and the dos, <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_2">don'ts</span> for each. A lot of small day-to-day issues were included which made it very relevant. Also, it was very well delivered and they spoke with examples and pictures from past incidents that the team had been a part of, which gave the entire thing a lot of credibility. At the end, the society even received a <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_3">certi</span> that it has been made aware! Very impressive indeed. What was even more impressive was the huge turnout of people which stayed throughout the two hour presentation. </span><br /><br /><span style="font-size:85%;">I think this is a wonderful initiative and they plan to do it for as many <span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_4">societies</span> as possible. Would urge you all to make sure this happens for yours, the website gives the phone numbers etc. and if it isn't already on the cards you could invite them. Its good to be <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_5">Jagrut</span> <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_6">afterall</span>, my <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_7">Mumbaikars</span>. </span><br /></div>The Nomadhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18148173873299319450noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4440426137650716764.post-14674585000837603642009-04-13T15:34:00.005+05:302009-04-13T15:58:20.869+05:30A thousand words<div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size:85%;">Friday night saw me looking at one of the nicest night views in Bombay. We (S,<span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_0">Abhi</span> and me)decided to drive to <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_1">Tardeo</span> for dinner at Oh!Calcutta and on our way we thought that why not drive around a little too. After all there's much merit in loitering around orange-lit roads at night, a lesson I learnt well while cruising the South Delhi roads. So we ended up at the point at Malabar Hill from where you can see the entire trail of blazing lights that is Marine Drive, from <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_2">Oberoi</span> right <span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_3">up to</span> <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_4">Chaupati</span>. From where I stood I could see the entire arc, the lights from the cars, throng of people on the tiny beach below, the gentle waves coming in, I could even see a tiny boat silhouetted in the reflection from the Nikon neon sign across. It was one of those moments when even if there's chatter around you, you are in a place where it all seems distant. This isn't the first time I was looking at this view but with the huge orange moon that hung over marine drive, it was something else.<br /><br />Given above is an example of a picture speaks a thousand words. That is, if you can find a picture worthy of the sight you see.<br /><br /><br />P.S: If I manage to take a picture which captures it all for me, will post. Don't like any I got. Could any of you out there help?<br /></span></div>The Nomadhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18148173873299319450noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4440426137650716764.post-86459695631923907372009-04-06T14:49:00.007+05:302009-04-06T16:01:29.363+05:30Celebrity Spotting<meta name="Generator" content="Microsoft Word 10"><meta name="Originator" content="Microsoft Word 10"><link style="font-family: times new roman;" rel="File-List" href="file:///C:%5CDOCUME%7E1%5CPrachi%5CLOCALS%7E1%5CTemp%5Cmsohtml1%5C01%5Cclip_filelist.xml"><!--[if gte mso 9]><xml> <w:worddocument> <w:view>Normal</w:View> <w:zoom>0</w:Zoom> <w:compatibility> <w:breakwrappedtables/> <w:snaptogridincell/> <w:wraptextwithpunct/> <w:useasianbreakrules/> </w:Compatibility> <w:browserlevel>MicrosoftInternetExplorer4</w:BrowserLevel> </w:WordDocument> </xml><![endif]--><style> <!-- /* Style Definitions */ p.MsoNormal, li.MsoNormal, div.MsoNormal {mso-style-parent:""; margin:0in; margin-bottom:.0001pt; mso-pagination:widow-orphan; font-size:12.0pt; font-family:"Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family:"Times New Roman";} a:link, span.MsoHyperlink {color:blue; text-decoration:underline; text-underline:single;} a:visited, span.MsoHyperlinkFollowed {color:purple; text-decoration:underline; text-underline:single;} @page Section1 {size:8.5in 11.0in; margin:1.0in 1.25in 1.0in 1.25in; mso-header-margin:.5in; mso-footer-margin:.5in; mso-paper-source:0;} div.Section1 {page:Section1;} --> </style><!--[if gte mso 10]> <style> /* Style Definitions */ table.MsoNormalTable {mso-style-name:"Table Normal"; mso-tstyle-rowband-size:0; mso-tstyle-colband-size:0; mso-style-noshow:yes; mso-style-parent:""; mso-padding-alt:0in 5.4pt 0in 5.4pt; mso-para-margin:0in; mso-para-margin-bottom:.0001pt; mso-pagination:widow-orphan; font-size:10.0pt; font-family:"Times New Roman";} </style> <![endif]--> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 12pt; text-align: justify;font-family:times new roman;"><span style="font-size:85%;">As is always the case at Prithvi, there was much celebrity spotting, though a piece of Prithvi furniture called Makarand Deshpandey was missing. Shashi Kapoor was there, looking far more handsome and elegant than he did in his younger days - white hair, white kurta pajama. Its only natural that he be there to watch a play, still it was kind of nice to see him, he looked a little unwell though. There were a lot more, including the newly famous Jago re guy from the Tata Tea commercial - who hung around before the play long enough to be spotted and left soon after some people obliged.
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<br />I don't think I have told you this, according to S, I am a magnet for sidey celebrities or may be I am the only one in this world who recognizes them! I think I remember <a href="http://orangeicecandy.blogspot.com/">Parul</a> mentioning in one of her posts that she saw and recognized Ritu Shivpuri ... now that's the kind of thing I am talking about! In every flight, every mall visit, visit to our club, every time we are eating out - I almost always end up spotting them, its like they know I am around and come crawling out of the woodwork. The ones from TV soaps, I don't know too many but I'm so good at the game that I look at body language and know that they think they are celebrities!
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<br />The dictionary of course doesn't have the word 'sidey' so it technically doesn't exist but I love it, it so fittingly describes a certain kind of people.
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<br />Anyway, don't trust S's claim about the sidey bit, he includes Vir Sanghvi, all politicians and even Shubha Khote and her daughter Bhavna in sideys. Imagine! That woman Bhavna starred in Dekhi Bhai Dekh, that should mean something! Not one to give up easily, I am out to prove him wrong. To make it harder he has refused to admit evidence from incidents more than two years old, which ruled out my Quali days when I could recite the breakfast menu for most airlines , traveled with flight full of TV cast and crews for popular (unheard of) soaps which made all aunties run amok and moved around with the likes of Imran Hashmi, Mahesh Bhatt and the idiotic curly-haired guy from that man's bleach cream ad. Er, I think I lost the point a bit.
<br /></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 12pt; text-align: justify;font-family:times new roman;"><span style="font-size:85%;">He also passed the ruling that the people I 'go' to see in plays, premiers, concerts, FW etc. do not qualify as a 'spotting'! How unfair is that! I should take out a morcha against such heartless rulings!My protest is even more centered around the premier(s), though there's only one I have ever been to, its the quality that matters after all and it was to the premier for Rang De Basanti I went and how not to term spotting the cast as spotting?!Is there no justice?! I only hope those not part of the play/concert/premier/FW and present as audience are admissible or I will have to call the human rights people.
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<br />All this talk reminds me of two landmark celebrity events in my life - my meeting with the very good looking Rajiv Gandhi when I put tilak on his forehead and he pinched my cheeks in return (I was all of 8) , a mousy looking Soniya <i>Ji</i> was also there. The second event happened many many years later when I walked into the elevator at Holiday Inn, Pune with my dad to see Dharam ji there, noticing my wide-eyed excited look he leaned and said to me in his Dharam voice 'Hulloo Laidyee'. It was totally cool, my dad only asked me later who the gentleman saying hello to me was and S hullo-laidyees me every so often to bug me.This was also my very first celeb spotting. In later years with freshers parties and college fests being infested with known names it no longer remained a novelty. Anyhow, I am mighty proud of the ignorant or disdainful look I manage for the wannabe celebs. Its another matter when I spot some real celebs </span><span style="font-size:85%;">(by my standards)</span><span style="font-size:85%;"> and sports people or its someone I know my mom would be majorly excited to know about and so I frantically SMS her ... she's the only one who truly shares my enthusiasm. Or J. Or may be Abhinav.
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<br />Still in recent times I have proven S wrong with more thumping evidence, what with PC, Bebo and Saif (flapping his arms, imitating an aeroplane at security check) hovering to be spotted. S only sighs about me and the family being filmi :) <o:p></o:p></span></p> The Nomadhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18148173873299319450noreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4440426137650716764.post-27852353774632834012009-04-06T13:51:00.009+05:302009-04-06T14:49:37.803+05:30Jis Lahore Nahi Dekhya<div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size:85%;">My foot is a bit better but hasn't healed as it was supposed to, so I'm still not allowed to move around much. Given this, quest for entertainment available at ground floor level took us to one of my favorite places - <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_0">Prithvi</span>, I have written about my love for the place <a href="http://dreamtimewalkabout.blogspot.com/2008/05/theatrical-bliss.html">earlier as well</a>. This was followed by a long, relaxed din at <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_1">Mahesh</span> Lunch home. Abhinav was also with us and its a weekend tradition all three of us have come to enjoy and look forward to.<br /><br />The play we watched was '<span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_2">Jis</span> Lahore <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_3">Nahi</span> <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_4">Dekhya</span>', its a much acclaimed one which S has been wanting to catch for some time, we did manage to for their 139<span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_5">th</span> show. The script was very tight with sharply drawn characters and many acts which were short and crisp, they made the story progress very well. The actors were all really good and though it would be a treat to watch <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_6">Surkeha</span> <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_7">Sikri</span> play the key role of <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_8">Ratan's</span> mother (as was the case in its initial days) overall the <span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_9">performances</span> were really good. The story though set in post-partition Lahore is very relevant today, may be far too much for comfort.<br /></span></div>The Nomadhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18148173873299319450noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4440426137650716764.post-86223202641375516532009-03-05T12:59:00.006+05:302009-03-05T19:40:55.383+05:30Grounded<span style="font-size:85%;">As I stood at the airport waiting for my luggage to arrive, back from my 20 day trip, I thought to myself that once the stuff arrives I will say with a sigh that my trip is over and it was all very good. This is precisely what I did. I should have waited a few days.<br /><br /></span><div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size:85%;">I twisted my foot badly a few days into the trip and since it didn't trouble so much I went on with the high heels, dance till you drop routine. One wedding and four places later I was in Jaipur and all geared up for the next wedding - where my childhood friend was getting married to my school friend!That done, when the foot started paining I popped a few painkiller's and went on with the next wedding. This was my favorite aunt's son - one of my favorite cousin getting married, so for five days it was running around, managing the things, dancing around, no sleep, meeting up everyone, lots of laughter, marathon dance sessions, food, jewelry, heels <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_0">et</span> all. It was so much fun that I was beginning to wonder that something would go wrong but it (seemingly) didn't and I was back in Bombay.<br /><br />Sigh.The foot still paining, turning a ghastly shade of black so I went to the doc, he took a look and pronounced a very <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_1">un</span>-healed, very torn ligament, at a very sensitive place. Sob sob. He also glared at me and lectured me about not turning up earlier. It didn't help a bit that he called it a 'text book case' and caused much undisguised glee and <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_2">dekkho</span> among the three sidekick student-doctors who were hovering. One of them even went on to exclaim in an excited voice about how she had read about it the very same day. Thanks, hopefully my ligament would be as happy to know this. SO. Foot in bandage (since </span><span style="font-style: italic;font-size:85%;" >the time for a cast and crutch is long past</span><span style="font-size:85%;">) for ten days, where no walking on this foot, only being at home and wallowing in misery. This will be followed by more X-rays to rule out hairline fractures, followed by physiotherapy (since </span><span style="font-style: italic;font-size:85%;" >we didn't start in time</span><span style="font-size:85%;"> ... I get it, I'm the <span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_3">villain</span> in my own story!!). It'll be a few (painful) months before its all well.<br /><br />Me at home. Only reading, watching TV, surfing, sleeping, phoning(!) and eating. No going out (you may not all the time but you need to know you can!). No walking around. There are of course pluses like friends dropping in with goodies (nariyal pani, chocolates, sandwiches!Thanks, May.) and pretty flowers (below. Thanks, <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_4">Amrita</span>!), sympathetic and loving phone calls, S being all caring etc.<br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_SaTSHwLeXPU/Sa-g0plqFpI/AAAAAAAAFTY/teb06w5G2_g/s1600-h/IMG_0248.jpg"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_SaTSHwLeXPU/Sa-g0plqFpI/AAAAAAAAFTY/teb06w5G2_g/s320/IMG_0248.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5309639312070547090" border="0" /></a><br />P.S. All you </span><span style="font-style: italic;font-size:85%;" ><span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_5">buri</span> <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_6">nazar</span> <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_7">walas</span>,</span><span style="font-size:85%;"> who said with malice and not joy in your hearts that I was always roaming about, <span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_8">gallivanting</span>, off-to, travelling; I will give you more once I'm up and running! Till then a '<span style="font-style: italic;" class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_9">muh</span><span style="font-style: italic;"> </span><span style="font-style: italic;" class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_10">kala</span>'.<br />All you wonderful people who said it with joy and <span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_11">camaraderie</span>, much love and may you get to do all the travelling you want in life! (Can also say '<span style="font-style: italic;" class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_12">muh</span><span style="font-style: italic;"> </span><span style="font-style: italic;" class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_13">safed</span>' if you so wish!)<br /></span></div>The Nomadhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18148173873299319450noreply@blogger.com10tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4440426137650716764.post-31530026523296537412009-03-03T16:01:00.008+05:302009-03-03T16:36:51.522+05:30They Said It<div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size:85%;">One of the families I was visiting for one the (many) weddings I attended recently had an aquarium with many colorful fish. Needless to say the thing was a magnet for the swarm of kids running the place over. One kid who must be around 2-3 years old is observing the fish and suddenly runs to approach the aunt the house belongs to and with hands on his hips says in his best accusatory tone ,"<span style="font-style: italic;"><span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_0">Aapki</span> <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_1">machliyan</span> <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_2">doob</span> <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_3">rahi</span> <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_4">hain</span></span>!"<br /><br />Who was it again, saying that '<a href="http://www.amazon.com/Saving-Fish-Drowning-Amy-Tan/dp/0399153012">Saving Fish From Drowning</a>' is a stupid title for a book?!<br />--------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------<br />Being the patient listener to my gripe about 'its the humidity!' frizzing up my hair, <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_5">Ser</span> and <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_6">Aj gifted me a </span><a href="http://www.morphyrichardsindia.com/pc-52-13-hair-dryers.aspx">bubblegum pink hair straightener</a> for my <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_7">b'day</span>. All excited about it ,I'm busy putting it to wonderful use before a party when S walks into the room, looks at me all bewilderment and exclaims,"Why are you stapling your hair with the giant stapler!" :D He's adorable, isn't he?<br />--------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------<br />S and I are watching the Oscars. The <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_8">Slumdog</span> Millionaire team is on stage to receive the Best Picture award, there's much applause and noise etc. After a little while <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_9">Nanda</span> <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_10">didi</span> - our housekeeper and cook, comes in and sounds all excited and worked up when she asks me - <span style="font-style: italic;"><span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_11">wo</span> <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_12">chawli</span> <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_13">ke</span> <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_14">bacchhon</span> <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_15">ko</span> prize <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_16">mila</span> <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_17">kya</span></span>? (did the children from the <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_18">chawl</span>/slum win the award?) She's watched the movie on (an <span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_19">obviously</span> pirated) CD and his son is in love with it, wanting to watch parts of it once <span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_20">everyday</span>.<br /><br />I do not have the heart to get into the <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_21">nitty</span> <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_22">gritties</span> of the movie and not the children being nominated and so on, so I just tell her that they did. She's ecstatic!<br /><br />To me all the print space <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_23">CCs</span> and airtime wasted on whether India can claim the movie as its own or not are stupid in that moment. If a kid from the slum (and his mother) feels that its the story of him and other kids like him, who are we to play spoilsport?</span><br /> </div>The Nomadhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18148173873299319450noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4440426137650716764.post-39878850861132633322009-03-01T12:25:00.006+05:302009-03-01T13:14:56.140+05:30Sublime Sunday<div style="text-align: justify;">It is a Sunday morning at home after many Sundays. I wake up early as the maid comes while there's still water in the taps. Then I read the newspaper, sit around for a while absorbing the feel of my home. The guy in the society who plays groovy music at a loud volume on Sunday mornings hasn't woken up ... or may be he's away too, I'm sure I'm not the only one gallivanting away. I don't feel like putting music on and destroying the calm. The sun is filtering through all the windows in all the rooms. Its all very quiet, the kind which makes you feel like tip-toeing and whispering even when <span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_0">noone's</span> around.<br /><br />S is still sleeping, he looks very innocent, not that he looks otherwise when awake :) Its the perfect kind of time to get back to bed with a book and that's what I do, stealthily, so as not to wake him. The walls are bright with the sunlight coming in through the white curtains and the room seems to be glowing. There is a slight breeze and I watch the lazy patterns forming on the wall with the sun, the window bars and the trees outside.<br /><br />I am reading with my back to S and suddenly he turns in his sleep , holds me tight as if to stop me from going anywhere. With his face in my neck, I feel his breathing and keeping the book away, I lie back. Sometimes it so happens that even a nomad gets tired and finds the way back home.<br /><br />I'm back.<br /></div>The Nomadhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18148173873299319450noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4440426137650716764.post-76155523771857223192009-02-03T17:32:00.003+05:302009-02-03T17:36:51.833+05:30Ta Again<span style="font-size:85%;">Hey you all. I'm on my way to the cross country sojourn which will involve a much-awaited stay with the in-laws (have been twice in five years, for two days each) my dutiful ratings are gonna break the ceiling I tell you! <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_0">Chattisgarh</span>, places I haven't been to, weddings, food, dressing up, relatives and <span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_1">inevitable</span> questions about ... when is the good <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_2">noooozz</span>?! </span><br /><span style="font-size:85%;"></span><br /><span style="font-size:85%;">I'm gonna love some it and I'm gonna survive all of it. :) </span>The Nomadhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18148173873299319450noreply@blogger.com9tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4440426137650716764.post-19328690698206908802009-01-27T12:51:00.009+05:302009-01-27T14:29:27.552+05:30Thoughts Back Home<div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size:85%;">Thank you all, for missing me! S and I came back last night at about 3 am and I'm all cranky with sleep. I will write about my meet-the-people trip later but just a few thoughts before I nap.<br /><br /></span></div><ul style="text-align: justify;"><li><span style="font-size:85%;">Among those spending the Republic Day Weekend in Dubai, there are some who do not want to be seen doing this (may be they told the friends that they were sailing in South of France). Hence, can typically be heard making such conversations as they deplane, to dissipate their suddenly LS image : <span style="font-style: italic;">Isn't it so artificial ... I just don't feel like going out the airport! </span>Pray tell me, you did not know where it was headed when you got onto this flight? <span style="font-style: italic;"><span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_0"><span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_0">Neena</span></span> called and said she has rented a villa South of Istanbul or may be it was France, I told her we were very busy or would have joined ...</span> I tell her only this - it's all cool. We understand. You don't want to be seen as a Dubai-going person, but then these are recessionary times - be easy on yourself!<br /></span></li><li><span style="font-size:85%;"> I was pleasantly surprised that the TV had our very own <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_1"><span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_1">Doordarshan</span></span> channel! I realized that watching Republic Day parade on <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_2"><span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_2">Doordarshan</span></span> and waiting for the <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_3"><span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_3">Birla</span></span> <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_4"><span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_4">Balika</span></span> <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_5"><span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_5">Vidyapeeth</span></span> Band (better known as the <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_6"><span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_6">Pilani</span></span> girls band) still gives me the same high. Its my school (one of the many) <span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_7">after all</span>!<br /></span></li><li><span style="font-size:85%;">Whichever class I travel, I could never cut somebody off and thrust my passport in to tell someone, anyone that they should wait in the line for Economy as this one is for Business/First. Ever. Which is what this evil uncle who was ahead of us in line did this to an unsuspecting foreigner backpacker couple. </span><span style="font-size:85%;">So much for <span style="font-style: italic;"><span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_8"><span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_7">Athithi</span></span> <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_9"><span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_8">Devo</span></span> <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_10"><span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_9">Bhav</span></span></span>.</span><span style="font-size:85%;"> Seriously, how can you do that?! It would like, take a minute or two for them to get done, why be so rude? When I used to travel to work by local train, I could not even bring myself to walk to the front of the line and buy a first class pass if there wasn't already a <span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_10">separate</span> queue, while an entire serpentine line waited. In fact, that reminds me of how these aunties in the local trains would go <span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_11">up to</span> people who didn't pass their visual examination and ask them to show their first class pass! Imagine that! I'm still infuriated.</span></li><li><span style="font-size:85%;">I have opened the registration for people who want to join me in my morcha to get Ikea to India. I am tired of lugging stuff every time!Anyway, half of the stuff me wants is un-luggable :(<br /></span></li></ul>The Nomadhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18148173873299319450noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4440426137650716764.post-29445141706102044642009-01-22T13:13:00.003+05:302009-01-22T13:25:37.449+05:30Ta!Me off to my second vacation in as many months! If only I could keep up the consistency!<br /><br />I shall be back after four long, tiring days of fun. Miss me.The Nomadhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18148173873299319450noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4440426137650716764.post-17094950103701418452009-01-19T17:44:00.008+05:302009-01-19T19:20:44.866+05:30Good? Bad? Ah, just mix it all!<div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size:85%;">There's no such thing as a bad thing. Or good. Its all just a messy, sticky bundle of both. It seems that every good thing in </span><span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_0" style="font-size:85%;">life</span><span style="font-size:85%;"> leaves behind it a bit of sadness and vice versa. May be this is how it is supposed to be, to balance it out.<br /><br /></span><span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_1" style="font-size:85%;">Amit</span><span style="font-size:85%;"> is in India for his father's </span><span style="font-style: italic;font-size:85%;" ><span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_2">barsi</span></span><span style="font-size:85%;">, in fact he has been visiting every six months since the last year and I have been able to meet him more frequently than I have in all the years J and he have been gone ... which is SO good and would be really great, if not for the sad reason behind it. He reached </span><span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_3" style="font-size:85%;">Saturday</span><span style="font-size:85%;"> night and was here till today morning, a good 36 hours including a Sunday so YAY, I had a really great time this weekend.<br /><br />It started with </span><span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_4" style="font-size:85%;">Amit</span><span style="font-size:85%;">, S and I having a late dinner on Saturday and chatting till late, followed by a majorly lazy Sunday morning with much chatting, laughs, breakfast and some quarreling between S and me over who would get up from the sofa first to get ready. We had planned to have lunch at Lemon Grass and landed there only to realize that its shut down! I stop my many-a-week visits to Phoenix Mills and see what happens to the place! They should have begged me not to quit my job (I used to work nearby) and they would have </span><span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_5" style="font-size:85%;">remained</span><span style="font-size:85%;"> in business! I digress ... we finally went to another favorite - </span><span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_6" style="font-size:85%;">Tamnak</span><span style="font-size:85%;"> Thai at </span><span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_7" style="font-size:85%;">Shivaji</span><span style="font-size:85%;"> Park and had a very tasty and very hot lunch which had all three of us shedding much water from the eyes. Somehow I have a history of </span><span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_8" style="font-size:85%;">senti</span><span style="font-size:85%;">, heart-to-heart chats over meals with </span><span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_9" style="font-size:85%;">Amit</span><span style="font-size:85%;">; a history which easily goes back a decade. So in keeping with the tradition we did have a serious chat, though not so </span><span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_10" style="font-size:85%;">senti</span><span style="font-size:85%;"> this time. Hey, where's that bravery award for</span><span style="font-size:85%;"> me?! :)<br /><br />The </span><span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_12" style="font-size:85%;">evening</span><span style="font-size:85%;"> was much fun with <a href="http://dreamtimewalkabout.blogspot.com/2008/07/that-place.html"><span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_13">Abhinav</span></a>, </span><span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_14" style="font-size:85%;">Amit</span><span style="font-size:85%;">, S and I taking the party to town for a long walk at Marine Drive, many cups of Tea at Tea Centre (and I am a not even a tea/coffee drinker!), a few breezy hours of laughing, arguing, pulling each other's leg and having a good time followed by more of the same over drinks at Woodside Inn, accompanied with even more passionate discussing. <a href="http://strummingmythoughts.blogspot.com/">Ser</a> directed us there after we peeped into Mondy's and Leopold and wanted away from the crowded noises and table hogging (Thanks Ser, loved the place! ). After so much </span><span style="font-style: italic;font-size:85%;" >mehnat</span><span style="font-size:85%;">, we rested our tired bones and had dinner at the Worli Copper Chimney, dropped Abhi and returned home with happy memories. Ha! It was one of those days when you feel saturated from having laughed, talked, eaten too much and from having had entirely too much fun.<br /><br />Later at night, S and I were talking and said almost the same thing wistfully. If J and Amit lived near us, around us or just not-so-f*****g-far-away from us, we could have had more of <span style="font-style: italic;">this</span>, it could have been more than an annual/bi-annual event in our lives. I slept with this thought and woke up with it on one my (least) favorite days off late - Ooh!Monday! (@#$%) After much moping around and having a summarily crappy day, I had a thought.<br /><br />I'm seeing this as the bad in my good but may be this is the good in my bad. I have these people in my life, I have the kind of family a lot of people would kill for and I also have some really really wonderful friends - may be more than my fair share (touchwood, people!) - most people are not as lucky to have this much. May be this is my good and if that's the case, I would pay the price gladly. I would take all the crappy Mondays and all the pining and missing and reminscing that is out there, to have this 'good' and won't mope either.<br /></span></div>The Nomadhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18148173873299319450noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4440426137650716764.post-68306735799658115642009-01-15T14:38:00.006+05:302009-01-16T13:25:31.803+05:30Colored Scraps and Blue Skies<div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size:85%;">Hitch Writer's post <a href="http://hitchwriter.blogspot.com/2009/01/fish-in-sky.html">here</a> brought about a wave of nostalgia that I was trying to not let surface for some days. I have lived in Jaipur for a few of my growing-up years and my parents still live there, also I've spent two years at MICA in Ahmadabad. If you've ever lived in that part of the country or even been there in the winter months, you would know that with the sun up the skies turn the bluest blue you would see. In the backdrop of these azure days comes 14<span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_0">th</span> Jan, which is a state holiday in both the states of <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_1">Rajasthan</span> and Gujarat, it being the much awaited kite flying festival, known as <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_2">Makar</span> <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_3">Sakranti</span> or <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_4">Uttarayan</span> respectively.<br /><br />Although the kite-flying starts many days in advance, THE day is the final reckoning. I have memories of entire households camping it on the rooftops, armed with their music systems blaring the latest <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_5">bolly</span> music, platters of hot yummy snacks and food making their way ever so often, from a single warrior to an army of 8-10 kite-fliers manning a single terrace and a never-ending stream of visiting friends and relatives contributing to the kite-wars across terraces. These inter-terrace interactions were such fun, there would be much challenging, attacks, counter-attacks and sledging. With such colorful setting and the girls very much in the <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_6">frey</span> ... the start of a few romances was to be completely expected. <span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_7">After all</span>, we don't watch our movies just for fun, there's much to be learnt from them as well! The colors, the energy, the food, the music, the war and the love of it all. Its to be experienced to be believed.<br /><br />Although my abilities in the art are amateurish my dad is a pro and has many stories starting from the time when he was a boy and used to make his own <span style="font-style: italic;"><span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_8">manjha</span></span> (the sharp thread used so that you can cut other kites) by coating the thread with crushed glass. Whenever we are together for the festival we troupe to buy the kites and other paraphernalia; whenever we are not we talk about the times we've had and dad tells me how he didn't feel like flying kites alone(without me) and got only few. Anyway he did most of the flying even when I was there, every time the boys from the neighboring terrace managed to cut more than 2-3 of my kites in a row I would call him to clear the skies for me. The bonus was of course no work in the maths class next day with everyone's fingers taped up with numerous band-aids. It was almost un-cool to not have your fingers criss-crossed with <span style="font-style: italic;">manjha</span>-cuts as a proof of your valiance!<br /><br />Even in the later years, in Ahmadabad me and my friends would climb on to the hostel terrace and spend the day flying a few kites and making much noise, chatting lots, lazing and munching most.<br /><br />With all these compelling snaps-shots swirling in my head, I couldn't NOT fly a kite so I did. With no wind (courtesy the tall buildings around), borrowed kites<span style="font-style: italic;">, <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_9">manjha</span></span> and in the society compound. They didn't stay up for more than a minute and there was nothing war-like about it. However, I did manage to get them into the air and was as excited as any other kid around me. There are things which give you joy no matter what and it is joy all the same even if some of it may be borrowed from people, places, sounds, sights not present around you at the time.<br /></span></div>The Nomadhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18148173873299319450noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4440426137650716764.post-21363086261194241492009-01-13T18:24:00.004+05:302009-01-16T13:47:38.200+05:30Year of Finished Business<div style="text-align: justify;">This year has to be an year of new beginnings and of finishing the unfinished business (I AM writing the new year post, ain't I?).<br /><br />May this be an year where the past is not forgotten and those who fell are not left there, an year where the wounds heal and those with compassion in their hearts find the time and courage to wear their hearts on their sleeves. An year where we don't completely lose the pain in our hearts but do find the hope to look to the future.<br /><br />So all you guys out there, have a great 2009 and may we all have many beginnings and many happy endings in this year.<br /><br />May this year be the year of finished business!</div>The Nomadhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18148173873299319450noreply@blogger.com3